So it has been a while since my last haircut. It was a horrific and made me cry for days. I have been terrified to go back. I need to have a trim plus some type of style work needs to be done. I currently have long thick hair. It is all one length and way past my shoulders. It is not Crystal Gayle-ish but it is similiar to Gwenyth Paltrow's current length. I want to keep it long but it needs something. It needs a dash of pizzazz. Any suggestions?